96 degrees flashes on your notification tab as you enter,
“Home Cooking near me” in Google maps.
Some of you [ now 40 – 58 years old ] remember:
• Grandma’s kitchen
• after-school snacks at home
• holiday gatherings
• someone always “making something”
Felt like we were all Producers then.
That was when America felt like a kitchen.
Everybody had a recipe.
Not just an appetite.
You can still see the aroma of, dinner routinely happening at home, church potlucks, recipes passed down, etc.
But some things are not the same?
I recall more interdependence at the neighborhood level.
Neighbors could ask to borrow ingredients, not just a shovel.
Today founders, creators, and underutilized professionals…
Feel like something has changed.
They are asking did we lose something we could rebuild?
Why does the United State feel like a vending machine?
🫁 (Exhale.)
The vending machine isn’t evil. It’s executing.
The real “need to know” is who stocked it.
What was the machine built to optimize?
Built for scale.
Built for predictability.
Built for millions of strangers who want exactly the same thing.
You push the button:
• education
• healthcare
• entertainment
• retirement
• legal remedies
• employment
• housing
• Recognition
And something drops.
Sometimes exactly what you expected.
Sometimes not.
It used to be that America required Preparation.
You have to:
• shop
• learn
• plan
• fail
• improvise
• coordinate
The vending machine requires 1 thing:
Urgency.
📍 (Stay here a second.)
Hungry?
Push B4.
Need a credential?
Push B4.
Need attention?
Push B4.
Need validation?
Push B4.
Need legal resolution?
Push B4.
Need retirement?
Push B4.
Need identity?
Push B4.
Few people wake up intending to outsource their capacity.
Convenience eventually becomes culture.
One Button at a time.
Eventually:
“I don’t cook.”
becomes:
“I can’t cook.”
Then:
“Nobody cooks.”
Then:
“Cooking is irresponsible when there’s a machine.”
Then:
“Why would anyone question the machine?”
Then:
“The machine is reality.”
Most people approach institutions the way they approach vending machines.
That’s habitat.
Fish don’t discover water.
America can recover the capacities we delegated…
I’m not saying America should destroy the machine.
I asking you….
Do you remember the kitchen?
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